Our Daily Spread for November 24, 2011 Thursday ©

Nov 24, 2011 by

Advice Negotiations stall over refusing to do that for that price.  A relationship is at an impasse because one party will not admit he/she knows something that is a deal breaker.  “I won’t say anything,  I just won’t do it and I’m not meeting to discuss it either.”  Best lay low and let it pass,  you feel deep down,  or there just won’t be any relationship or any deal at all.  An impasse is when you can’t take any action because another party won’t even agree to meet.

(At the time of production,  there’s no way to correct the lack of spaces after punctuation.  I am writing around it now!)

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Without a question to focus the answer,  four cards can mean contradictory things especially when the Spread has a card that negates other cards.  Without a question also the pronouns in a group reading are more flexible,  especially in some of these Rider Waite Tarot spreads.  When a pronoun is in parentheses,  feel very free to substitute.  The question in a  ‘real’  individual reading supplies at least half the information!

Three of Pentacles

Four of Cups,  Four of Pentacles,  Four of Swords


DAILY MESSAGE TAROT ANALYSIS  Tell the visitors here something useful and meaningful to them.

Note:  ALL pronouns here are up for grabs,  so I mostly put the spread in “I”  mode.


Relationship Perspective (Three of Pentacles)

Regarding a mutual give and take,  I won’t:  won’t talk about it,  won’t participate.

Not doing my part in the relationship,  not admitting that I am being stingy.

Holding out for a mutual relationship when he/she is withholding participation.

I refuse to reciprocate and am not divulging that I will not participate.

Will not accept that he/she is in a relationship,  isn’t doing anything,  isn’t saying anything.

We are at an impasse,  and I can’t do anything because he/she won’t even agree to meet.

A relationship is at an impasse because one party will not admit he/she knows something that is a deal breaker

In the love triangle,  all three parties are not communicating or getting together,  nothing is happening.

Best lay low and let it pass,  you feel deep down,  or there just won’t be any relationship or any deal at all.

I’m not about to admit our relationship: I have nothing to do with you,  not about to talk.

Since you aren’t doing your part,  I am not doing mine,  and I won’t talk about it either.

Refusing to keep his/her mouth shut when he/she isn’t even in the relationship.

This is a secret relationship,  we deny it,  we lay low.

Refuses to keep the secret,  and isn’t doing what was agreed upon.

I’m not admitting that I am withholding,  that I am not going to have a real relationship.

Business Perspective/Deal or Exchange (Three of Pentacles)

Aren’t doing their part in the deal,  and aren’t letting on that they aren’t.

(He) refuses to say or do anything (he) agreed to do.

I do not want to keep quiet about not having any part in the deal.

Won’t admit I refused to participate at the meeting

I am not about to withhold doing my part,  but I am not really a party to it.

We have a deal but no one is doing anything,  or even admitting that they are not.

My mouth is shut.  They are not going to let me participate in the deal,  so I won’t be.

They shut me out.  I am not a participant,  and I won’t be making money in the transaction.

An impasse is when you can’t take any action because another party won’t even agree to meet.

Best lay low and let it pass,  you feel deep down,  or there just won’t be any relationship or any deal at all.

A negotiation is at an impasse because one of the parties knows a secret that is a deal breaker.

I won’t say anything,  I just won’t do it and I’m not meeting to discuss it either.

Negotiations stall over his refusing to do that for that price.

Not letting them know he is not doing it,  and refusing to negotiate.

Not paying them because they did not do it,  and refusing to negotiate.

He/She does not want anything to do with (them),  will not meet with (them),  and isn’t doing a thing.

He/She settled for not enough money,  after the offer was refused and they did not respond.

I want nothing to do with this deal,  I shorted it and am not going to have any participation.

Am keeping my mouth shut in the meeting,  but no way am I not in on the deal.

I am out of the action,  not admitting I don’t have the money and I don’t have what it takes to be a party to the deal.

I am not a party to our deal.  I am not going to admit I ain’t doing it.


Don’t want to get together with them,  have not had enough sleep.

Did not participate in the meeting,  and am keeping my mouth shut about my refusal to.

I did not want to keep their secret,  but I wasn’t at their meeting.

I am not going to admit I refused to just lay low at that meeting.

We met together,  and I won’t admit I kept my mouth shut and did not participate.


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Well, well.  The three fours in a row here.  Problem for Your Reader is:  THEY ARE ALL NEGATIVE.  In English, negatives cancel one another out.  In romance languages,  they emphasize one another.


Four of Cups is to refuse,  to not admit,  to hold out.  Four of Pentacles is to not admit,  to keep the secret,  to keep your mouth shut,  to withhold.  Four of Swords is to lay low,  to not participate or not be a participant in,  to sleep or sleep on it.  It is tricky, tricky, tricky to keep track of the negatives canceling one another out here!


The non-four is the spoiler card here:  Three of Pentacles is a relationship,  a deal,  a meeting.  Three of Pentacles gets together,  is a mutual deal or relationship.


My best advice is to not bother to get cross-eyed about the negatives,  and just go with the flow of the meanings here.



Four of Cups One of the easy cards to remember the meaning of:   It shows in Rider Waite Tarot a seated person,   arms crossed,   head averted,  even legs crossed obviously saying   “NO,  I don’t want any.”   It means to refuse an offer as well as refuse to listen or refuse to do;   it means to not want.   This is the deal breaker.   (He is not going to call you.)


Four of Pentacles has a secret and is not divulging;   is not putting out the money or the whatever.   Is  ‘out of town.’   Is clamming up,   not admitting something.   To keep the secret,   to keep your mouth shut,   to withhold.  (He is not going to call you.)



Four of Swords is one to to lay low,   to not participate or not be a participant in,  to sleep or sleep on it.   This is a dormant phase,  can even describe a coma,   is even a support card to a strong death theme.   (He is not going to call you.)


Three of Pentacles And here we have the deal,   relationship,   settlement,   meeting or agreement that he is not gonna be in.   This Rider Waite Tarot card is about getting together,   agreeing,   each party doing his part;   or is about a relationship in which each party does his part fair and square.

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  1. feather

    A relationship is at an impasse because one party will not admit she knows something that is a deal breaker.

  2. Marie

    It is tricky,tricky,tricky to keep track of the negatives canceling one another out here!

  3. FCP

    Yeah I’m dying to call the man. He’s the unwilling partner and we broke up over the weekend because of it. I think I WILL lay low, like the cards say and just let some time pass. Round 2 this weekend. <<>>

    • Sounds like a plan.

      If you gotta call the unwilling partner, call me instead and take his temperature so you know his attitude, where he is coming from.

      Lay low and listen for the bell for Round Two. (Wish I knew some clever boxing lingo.


  4. Anna

    I refused an invite last night to go out drinking, wanted to get to bed early and be fresh (not hung over! ) for Thanksgiving! 🙂

  5. Me

    Stagnation! but the water will again flow.

    • Advice is to not get out the plunger too. To just let it go down.

      Enjoy your day of Thanksgiving. The people who work for me are bringing their Thanksgiving over to my house, along with some neighbors if they are sober.

  6. Win

    Crazy ‘crossed eyes’ for sure, seems like a day for stillness, hopefully not stupildy so. Happy Thanks for the giving!

    • Stillness is the best use for impasse.

      Elk practice stillness usually.

      I am grateful for the visitors that make this blog project worthwhile.

      Enjoy your celebration of Thanksgiving.

  7. Lori

    I read this as you can’t be in a relationship with an unwilling partner, and maybe it is just time to lay low and let thins pass. Thank you for you daily Emily and a very happy Thanksgiving to you!

    • I think you got it, by golly. That is what is says to me too. Lay low and let things pass is a fine life philosophy, a disengagement that is not the same as not giving a damn, but could be confused for that. (That is why it garners attention from the formerly unwilling or inattentive partner.)

      You’re welcome and Thank You for visiting and commenting. An enjoyable Thanksgiving to you too.

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