Our Daily Spread for January 11, 2012 Wednesday©

Jan 11, 2012 by

Advice  Mind your Connections.  Connect with what brings you up, and get away from what brings you down.  That’s so easy to say, but our level of consciousness (i. e., who we are inside) directly affects the kind of people (hence the kind of events and circumstances) we attract.  So we make connections we don’t realize we are making until we clean up our insides.  Today’s blog goes a long way toward explaining how spiritual life affects lifestyle.

Is this the first time you come here? Well … what to do:

*Go to Advice (above ) which is a summary of the Messages. (Advice is everyone’s favorite part.)

*Go to Group Analytical Tarot Reading below.  One or more of those sentences has something to say to you.  Intuitively pick those out and decide whether to encourage or suppress them.  They are about you and the people around you.  They are about today and the days around it.  (It is a group message like a horoscope,  except Tarot isn’t based on someone else’s birth data,  so it can be specific,  accurate,  detailed and direct.  Our experiment here is  “How much more accurate is it?”)

Did you come here for your predictions? –  You are done now –  See you tomorrow.

Without a question to focus the answer,  four cards can mean contradictory things,  especially when the Spread has a card that negates other cards.  Without a question also the pronouns in a group reading are more flexible,  especially in some of these Rider Waite Tarot spreads.  When a pronoun is in parentheses,  feel very free to substitute.  The question in a  ‘real’  individual reading supplies at least half the information!


Ten of Pentacles
Lovers – Five of Pentacles – World


GROUP ANALYTICAL TAROT READING Tell the visitors here something useful and meaningful to them.


Things I Am Better Off Without (Five of Pentacles + World)


So much better off without the lover who caused so much grief.

Feeling sorry for myself missing all the drama Lover caused me, that I am doing beautifully without.

Things I am better off without include people who connect me to needy troublemakers.

You are better off without a partner who drains you and brings friends like him/herself into your world.

Keeping myself away from the terrible family I suffered through, I have someone to love.


People I Have No Connection to (Lovers + World)


A whole gang of people with sad tales of woe that she simply won’t contact.

She has nothing at all in common with her dysfunctional relatives.

She does not belong in the ghetto neighborhood her lover lives in.

Don’t be influenced by the low-consciousness of people who don’t have the connections to higher consciousness (that you do).

She doesn’t even know you poor relatives, she lives in a world of her own.

She doesn’t know all these desperate people who are family connections.

There is a divide that prevents the spiritual adept from bringing higher consciousness down to the petty quarrelsome self-interested people who do without enlightenment.

He is in love with the most beautiful woman ever-ever but being broke is the trouble.

She is not part of the ghetto and its miasma anymore.

She isn’t putting up with lover’s hateful low-class family.




Am in this bad place for sick people quarantined or prevented from contact with the outside world. (Rehab again!)

My life is not complicated by not having any money anymore since I have someone who loves me.

Love partner can just do without having a family with her.

Living in the slums complicates the gorgeous dame’s love life.

Poverty makes lovers not get along unless they are in a world of their own.


Spiritual Perspective: Connecting and Not connecting (Lovers + World)


Associating yourself with trashy disgruntled people drains and exhausts you unless you have some disconnect, some immunity to their griping quarrelsome ways.

When you are a loving person who connects to God, you have a buffer between yourself and the scenes and the people who are in the dark and are unloving to one another.

When you don’t connect with dark sides and you do connect with what is uplifting, you are in a world of your own invisible to people who would clutter your life with theirs.

Having gone through Dark Night of the Soul, people who are trouble just don’t connect with you, are not in your sphere.

Now, Part Two,

Do you want to know a little, or a lot, about how this Tarot Verbatim ™ thing works? If so,

*Go to Learn Tarot by Observing section below. This tells about the combined four pictures in the Daily Spread –  the pictures above here.  It explains how these four cards get together in your mind to make the message.

*Go to Learn Tarot by the Pictures.  It is what each of the four cards,  by itself,  has to say.  It shows you how that illustration makes that card’s meanings in this Spread.

You can put all this together and intuitively see yourself how Tarot Verbatim ™ works.

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Ten of Pentacles
Lovers – Five of Pentacles – World




Five of Pentacles with Ten of Pentacles. Immediately you know this is about the back alley of people who are dysfunctional (Ten of Pentacles) and/or poor and miserable (Five of Pentacles). About being drained or brought down by a bad family life. It is about being broke, being ‘in darkness’ or being in the dark. Wah!


But not to worry: On either side of this sad declaration is World, who has no connection to low-consciousness, and Lovers, who is a connection to higher consciousness.


So this spread is about: Mind your Connections. Connect with what brings you up, and get away from what brings you down.


Notice that Ten of Pentacles represents (in human form) what World is not bothered by, and Five of Pentacles is doing without the light (the enlightenment) that appears in Lovers. Those pairs of cards are saying the same thing in opposite ways.




Lovers Connection. Especially beneficial connections. Someone (guardian angel) is looking out for you. Love is here. There’s Adam with the tree of life and there’s Eve with the snake in her tree. Higher consciousness connects a human to the divine, to God. But there’s that volcano (eruptions of passions) and that snake to deal with.


Five of Pentacles Been down so long it looks like up to me. When you just ‘don’t get it,’ you are poor, and poor in spirit. You don’t even know where your next meal is coming from because you just walked by it without seeing it (illustration). The consequences of poverty are dire, whether physical or spiritual poverty. This Rider Waite Tarot card, in Tarot Verbatim ™ is the opposite of Ace of Pentacles which shows a positive correlation between ‘the right path’ and ‘money in your hand.’


Dark Night of the Soul is a spiritual phase that precedes going into the next level up of consciousness. It is a time when you are dissatisfied with yourself and see the lack in yourself of what it is you are about to receive. Ste. Teresa d’Avila expounds on this ‘abandoned by God’ feeling in Interior Castles, considered the foremost mystical writing of Western culture by the folks in the universities who get to say that.


World has graduated into higher consciousness and lives on another plane from ‘the rest of us.’ World is being the kind of person trouble avoids, the person the mugger does not notice. World is truly being in a world of your own, dancing to an internal drummer. The wreath around the dancing figure represents the barrier between planes.


Ten of Pentacles This is where we live. This is the in-laws, the trash neighbors, the abusive marriage, the Mafia and the politicians we find ourselves in the midst of. It shows a family owned and operated by Elder Dude, who has decreed something to the couple beneath him in the hierarchy that has the wife earnestly beseeching the father of the little squalling darling pulling at her clothes, while father stares in another direction. (Personally, I think Grandpa wants another grandson.)


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  1. Gbb

    So much better off without him- my mind knows that but my heart won’t accept it as I sit around wondering if he’ll call. And yes, like the reading says, I am feeling sorry for myself.

    • me 2. until i read the todays spread

      • How I wish I had had someone like me to talk to and analyze my situation when I was young and susceptible! How many YEARS of grief pining over a dude I would have saved. “We grow too soon old and too late wise.” So count yourself lucky to have experienced the perspective that life-experience bequeaths without having to serve the time like the rest of us did!

    • Well, here’s the whole quote about ‘feeling sorry for myself.’ “Feeling sorry for myself missing all the drama Lover caused me, that I am doing beautifully without.” It’s not just our hearts but our physical experience of sexual relating that makes us want him to call. Realizing this, separating that factor from our attachment to that individual, is better than aspirin.

  2. Hahaha… todays advise called me out… I hate feeling sorry 4 myself… waite a minute is this the samething as trying 2 adjust 2 anew life wout the person who was there 4 me for the last 7 years? He is happy w his soon 2 be wife. Emily I ve been wanting 2 call u but hold back why make it more painful? Another lesson I could have done allright wout

    • Since when does calling me make it painful? We put things to sleep ever so gently, you know, and tell you where a band-aid will suffice and how to make it through a night or two.

      Dark Night of the Soul is the zone where one phase ends and the other has not yet begun, and you feel so numb and nowhere. Five of Pentacles territory! Happens in spiritual and physical life.

      Ohhh, we can never do without our lessons: That is why we VOLUNTEERED to be here on this miserable dirtball … remember?

      • Emily you know that you have always been right including now. I was feeling down and that negative talk is just that. i think i know the answer to my own questions and in the end i tell myself it does not make a difference 2 prove myself right? im stuborn and u know i end up callin u because ur the best at what u do..and even though we have never met i feel like ive known u for years, talk 2 u tomorrow… ps thank u love the calendar =o)

  3. Anna

    Yes I just want to go away and shut the world out. I’ll let you know when I come out of hiding 🙂

  4. jules

    This is SUCH a full reading for me.

    I think the lessons of the recently past relationship (may it rest in peace)
    are stated with clarity here. Had to get into a community that was not right for me and go through the getting out! Contentment is the emotion that let’s me know
    I am on the right track.

    Thanks for the powerful words today.

    • And thank you for the endorsement. So well put what you say here is! As Thomas Edison said, now you know a thousand ways NOT to do it! Bon Voyage!

  5. Lori

    Good advice any day of the week, and not missing the old lover, well that cannot be over stated. Have a wonderful day 🙂

    • You, too, Lori. And speaking of that, it sounds like you are on the Three Six Nine Twelve Club. Are you? Check it out, you might want to participate in the benefits of membership. Speaking of ‘free and no strings attached.’

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