Our Daily Spread February 12, 2012 Sunday©

Feb 12, 2012 by

Advice Today we visit a duo we all encounter: The patient quiet affectionate man and his vocal female counterpart, the critical complaining whining nag who is sometimes also known as the Ex or Mama-Bat, a woman who drains the energy of others with her pity party and her righteous accusations. Emphasis is on the constant talk that exhausts.

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*Go to Advice (above ) which is a summary of the Messages. (Advice is everyone’s favorite part.)

*Go to Group Analytical Tarot Reading below.  One or more of those sentences has something to say to you.  Intuitively pick those out and decide whether to encourage or suppress them.  They are about you and the people around you.  They are about today and the days around it.  (It is a group message like a horoscope,  except Tarot isn’t based on someone else’s birth data,  so it can be specific,  accurate,  detailed and direct.  Our experiment here is  “How much more accurate is it?”)

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Without a question to focus the answer,  four cards can mean contradictory things,  especially when the Spread has a card that negates other cards.  Without a question also the pronouns in a group reading are more flexible,  especially in some of these Rider Waite Tarot spreads.  When a pronoun is in parentheses,  feel very free to substitute.  The question in a  ‘real’  individual reading supplies at least half the information!




Queen of Swords
Five of Pentacles – King of Cups – Star



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Missing the Love (Five of Pentacles + Star)

1. She misses the sweet guy who says ‘I love you’ but she is angry.
2. She is doing without her good man, she misses his love talk.
3. He has no money, he drinks, and the old lady adores him.
4. The widow of an affectionate man misses the good feeling.
5. He and she are so poor and they love one another so much.
6. She talks too much, she nags the quiet man until he feels inferior.
7. He loves her and tells her she is beautiful, which makes the old lady feel inferior.
8. He is happy being broke but she complains she is doing without.
9. He was feeling so good until she regaled him with how bad she felt.
10. Her constant bitching drains his energy and drives him to drink.
11. Mama-Bat drains every last dram of energy from an emotionally healthy man.
He speaks so well of her, and she is so critical of him, she runs him down.
His emotional diatribe about how he lost it all to his ex.
Tell the man sweetly how he doesn’t measure up to what you need.
He does not meet her expectations, he fails to be the optimistic gentleman.
He lost every dime but is so happy he lost the ex too.
She is so negative she drains all the positive energy out of a good man.
He drinks and feels sorry for himself but loves his elderly mother.
I feel so bad when mama talks about how daddy loved her, how she misses him.
She mourns her losses and talks a lot bitterly to this patient guy.

Now, Part Two,

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Queen of Swords
Five of Pentacles – King of Cups – Star




Both Five of Pentacles and Queen of Swords are miserable about a loss and/or are miserable losers.


Both King of Cups and Star are about positive emotional love. King of Cups is the quiet, patient, affectionate man who can also be a drinker – the bureaucratic type, I call it. Whereas Queen of Swords is the bitch card, the Mama-Bat card, the ex. She can be a widow or a woman who lost a baby.


When you put King of Cups and Star together, an affection man is saying ‘I love you.’ When you put Star and Queen of Swords together, you have a complaining, nagging, unpleasant (old) woman chattering away, regaling you with her gripes.


Five of Pentacles is poor health but Star is vibrant health.


Five of Pentacles with King of Cups is an emotional drain, whereas, King of Cups and Star is emotionally healthy.


We are Johnny-one-note … variations on a theme … today, aren’t we?





Five of Pentacles Dark night of the soul, bums on the street with bleeding feet passing by a church that would be their refuge if they weren’t so numb they didn’t see it. To be so down you are there to stay. To miss what you have lost, to do without, to have no money, be poor and feel inferior, to feel bad, to drain energy or have your energy drained, to lose everything. To do without, and what you are doing without. To feel sorry for yourself. To have a pity party, ‘poor poor pitiful me.’
King of Cups No shoulders hath me, and the fish around his neck tells you he is the softer man, the emotional man, the quiet man,the weaker man, the bureaucratic type. He is the sweet guy, the good man, the affectionate man, he loves you, he is your honey, he is happy and content with his lot. He is the gentleman, the patient guy, and the drinking man.
Star feels good all over, is singing in the shower, is healthy and optimistic and has positive energy. Star is one who says ‘I love you’ and stands for love talk or adoring and being adored. He tells her she is beautiful. It is also constant talk (chatter, confession, spilling guts … any kind of talk). That is what we are using of Star today. Illustration shows a happy ritual bath.
Queen of Swords today is negatively aspected and shows up in her worst light. She is an angry unpleasant complaining bitter wench, ex or Mama-Bat, the woman who drones and whines on vampirizing your energy. The elderly mother, the critical wife. That’s all she is today. The illustration is of a woman who lost a baby or babies, and she is the widow card in Rider Waite as well.





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  1. Candy, that’s it. You haven’t hit him back yet. That may be the reason you want him to come back too: revenge? Think about it. Sorry I made you cry! If that’s true, when you realize that is what’s going on inside you, you won’t be attached to Dude anymore. There are always ways to get revenge, either in your head or in real life, without letting him back in the house.
    You’ll think of something. I think I hear the gears going around already.

    • candy

      LMAO! no hitting! i realized thanks 2 u im done. he has enough drama 2 keep him busy for a good while. thanks, emily

  2. candy

    I sure do, and that makes me his ex the bitch! Well I might be a bitch but I had good reason to be one. Trust me on that if she were smart she would be too. I miss my friend I sure hope he returns soon!

    • Hmmmm. I think this is an inconsistent stance on your part! Ya think?

      • candy

        I wasnt one while we were together… But Im sure enjoying being one now. It feels good only half the time while the other Im still resentful and angry. Im working on it! Im just trying to take it one day at a time, and hopefuly head in the right direction. He is not the one I just havent been able to let him go. I will be giving you a call soon Emily! just making sure I can help your Elk! $$$$ Funny how the truth can make me feel uncomfortable. Im sure Im not the only one but I dont mind admitting it. No one is perfect.

        • Figure out why … internal reasons within yourself … you’re not through with him. What did he represent? … maybe an issue? What did the relationship feed … never mind him personally. It could be the process of the relationship is what ‘isn’t done’ to you, not the boy himself?
          The self underneath is a wild (as in wilderness, wild) thing. I was mad with my father when he died, furious. Sat down to figure it out. He had made me promise when I got a job I would buy this ugly car he wanted … big black heavy gangstery thing.
          I had promised him I would buy it. It was expensive. Somehow this meant he promised he would not die until I bought him the car, and that is why I was so angry with him for dying.
          So your attachment to him could be one of those off-the-wall processes.

          • candy

            After much thought and senseless crying I know why….. ITS HOW HE LEFT OR THE WAY HE DID IT….. broken, inconsolable.. you get the picture. he must of hated me so much…. Know the saying treat others the way you want to be treated?? I bet you do! well this shit does not

  3. Me

    Today we leave this ugly scenario and jump in for a 5 weeks fast from the unbearable!

  4. Anna

    I’m going to church this morning with a couple who EXACTLY fits this description.

    • We all know one or more couple like this, it’s a common phenomenon. I think this type of woman can get along only with that type of guy – for very long at least – and so tends to gravitate until she latches onto one. As for the guys, you have to wonder what’s in it for them other than not having the oomph to leave …

  5. Lori

    I’m going with the he’s broke but loves me, and maybe has a bitch of an ex that he lost his money to…Maybe that isn’t what they are saying (sure hope I’m not the nagging bitch or the older lady), but that is what I’m going with.

    Thanks Emily!

    • You have to work at being the nagging bitch; it takes dedication. Whatever you choose is your intuition.

  6. win

    I’m going to pick and choose my combination today, why travel down the nasty way if we do not have to. Yeah, I know life is not always that easy…

    • Win, doesn’t everyone know a couple like today’s?
      The use to make of these messages is to pick and then to decide whether to embrace or reject. Some of them are mostly reject-material.

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