Our Daily Spread February 14, 2012 Tuesday©

Feb 14, 2012 by

Advice Even a happy marriage is an aggravation, especially with a misbehaving child, or an issue about children;  but two grumpy people can be happy together too.   Getting away for some fun means a lot … unless only one party is going out to have that fun.  Here we examine two edgy people as a couple, the ramifications of their lives together as a married couple.

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*Go to Advice (above ) which is a summary of the Messages. (Advice is everyone’s favorite part.)

*Go to Group Analytical Tarot Cards Reading below.  One or more of those sentences has something to say to you.  Intuitively pick those out and decide whether to encourage or suppress them.  They are about you and the people around you.  They are about today and the days around it.  (It is a group message like a horoscope,  except Tarot isn’t based on someone else’s birth data,  so it can be specific,  accurate,  detailed and direct.  Our experiment here is  “How much more accurate is it?”)

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Without a question to focus the answer,  four cards can mean contradictory things,  especially when the Spread has a card that negates other cards.  Without a question also the pronouns in a group reading are more flexible,  especially in some of these Rider Waite Tarot spreads.  When a pronoun is in parentheses,  feel very free to substitute.  The question in a  ‘real’  individual reading supplies at least half the information!




Four of Wands
King of Wands – Sun – Queen of Swords



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Being Happily Married (Sun + Four of Wands)


This unhappy woman is happily married to this husband.

Married woman expects to get out of the house for some fun with Husband.

She demands of her husband that they move out of this neighborhood or house.

Two hostile people escape from their aggravations and enjoy living as a couple.

Their charming boy is making his still-married parents’ angry at one another.

What has him and her at odds with one another is the ‘issue’ (a boychild) of their marriage.

Being happy at home as a couple when each of us is stressed.

He and she relieve, on vacations, the stress of living in that State.

Having done without a husband, she is happy and relieved to be married.

He is happy to be married to her, and she feels taken advantage of.

She has high standards for a husband-material since she got out of a marriage.

She expects a husband to make her a happy home.

She is doing without children being married to this husband.

He and she make a happy home for their son and their lives are stressful.

She dutifully makes her husband and son a home.

They are happy together but each is a grumpy, annoyed person.


The edgy aggravated couple (King of Wands + Queen of Swords)


He is an edgy man because he married an unpleasant woman because of the kid.

Husband is the playboy leaving the wife at home aggrieved.

Two angry people remain a married couple because of the child.

She is disgruntled living with a childish man.

He has this infantile temper, and she is an angry martyred wench: They live together!

Leaving the marriage is such a relief: They were each so angry with one another!

She can endure Husband because he is out of the house, and it’s her happy place then.

He is a working man and she wants him to get out of that and be society.

Misbehaving child sets both him and her on edge in their own home.

He is free of the complaining nag he was married to.

He is like mama’s husband but he is out of mama’s house.

She whines to her married son as if she were his wife.


Now, Part Two,

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*Go to Learn Tarot by the Pictures.  It is what each of the four cards,  by itself,  has to say.  It shows you how that illustration makes that card’s meanings in this Spread.

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Four of Wands
King of Wands – Sun – Queen of Swords




We are at this angry-couple story again, the negative marriage this time. Gee, we have the angry irritated King of Wands man and his angry irritated put-upon Queen of Swords wife. In between them is either a miscreant boychild or the relief of leaving the house; above them is marriage or the house. Not too much dimension to this spread today.


Both King of Wands and Sun are callous uninhibited and impulsive seekers of whatever is fun for them, guys who are ‘just out to have some fun, just want to enjoy life,’ which they feel justified in. So the martyred Queen of Swords fits right into that household. (Of course, she can be the annoyance that sets them off, too, but her meaning is not about behavior; it is about the feeling of being taken advantage of and being encroached upon.)





King of Wands The good-old-boy here, the edgy childish (even hostile) dude with the temper who is very physical and uncultivated, the working man too. He is uninhibited, impulsive, grumpy, annoyed and passionate; he is also the husband card in Rider Waite Tarot, in Tarot Verbatim ™. King of Wands is at odds with (whoever), is stressed out. He is a sports fan and he tends to get in fights, which makes me think he drinks beer.

Sun In this setting, Sun sheds some of its meanings and is the boy, the son or child, the ‘happy’ of ‘happy marriage,’ as well as vacation, escape and getting out of the house. He is the playboy, the childish funloving churl who gets out of the house to misbehave and leaves the mama who makes the rules at home.

Queen of Swords is dissatisfied with her lot in life, she has grievances and is disgruntled – whether she is an actual victim or just resentful wanting more. She can be the righteous put-upon self-sacrificing martyr, or the overly aggressive demanding wench. She can be the dutiful woman with high standards (that are not being met) as well as the strong woman of character. She is stern. In her illustration she is say “Now would be good” with her arm outstretched and that no-nonsense look on her face. Another aspect of Queen of Wands is the woman mourning a baby or husband.
Four of Wands today is the house and the marriage, is living together under the same roof. It isn’t being the organization or neighborhood or the society leaders or political entity much today.







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  1. brittney

    LOL@ Sue…Why Thank You!

  2. brittney

    Queen of wands is me. The bitch with the High standards no human with a penis is able to meet!

  3. Sue

    Gosh I’m cranky today. On antibiotics right now, and you have never seen me this cranky. All I want is to be alone, nobody talking to me, curled up in a little ball. Hope tomorrow is better. Take care.

  4. Me

    Where the hell is the Queen of Hearts………..if we are to exam any card on Valentines Day it should be about the Queen of Hearts…tell me about the bitch with a heart …what does this card represent???

  5. Lori

    I’d love to go on a vacation with my warm puppy in waiting….he just needs to get here 🙂

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