Tarot Readings for You for September 14-15, 2017 Thursday-Friday©

Sep 13, 2017 by

(Both my computers have been inoperable for a week due to its maintenance techs choosing to have something called iDrive, a cloud backup thing, installed. It totally wrecked both of them. Remember iDrive: It runs Mercedes Benz self-driving cars! And THAT is why you are getting another email today. No time to finish the 3-card analytical post I started on each of the two computers.)

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Now, here’s a common situation. Women tend to take it personally when, after a wonderful first date, Dude is unresponsive. Quite often though, when I access Dude’s experience, it’s all about what’s going on in his life and where he’s at … like not wanting to re-live the last breakup/divorce. So the moral is: Don’t take it personally. (Just tell yourself he has bad taste in good women after all.)

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Today we have two questions from the same Querant. Is it about the same fellow? – I don’t know.

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For those of you who have been waiting for the much-delayed lessons, well, they are now live. There’s a big blue button you can check them out with.

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Email Reading

The category of life is:: Love

My question is:: I had a first date with a guy after an intense 1 month chatting online. Now he is cold towards me. Why is he not contacting me, will it help if I call him and ask him out or it will make me look weak?

Question: Why isn’t he calling me, and what effect would it have if I call him?

Ten of Wands – Four of Swords – Ten of Cups*

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When it comes to being happy as a couple, wait and don’t do anything.

When it comes to the happily-ever-after, – Ten of Cups

just don’t participate or respond – Four of Swords

and wait it out as long as it takes. – Ten of Wands

* (Our Daily Spread November 20, 2012 Tuesday© | TarotVerbatim.com

has 3 out of these four cards, for those of you who are looking them up.)

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King of Wands – Three of Swords – Page of Cups

Do I want to be a divorced man here?

Do I really want to be – Page of Cups

a divorced – Three of Swords

husband? – King of Wands

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Temperance – Knight of Wands – Ten of Swords

Running from being a failure in a close relationship.

Running away from – Knight of Wands

being a failure – Ten of Swords

in an intimate one-on-one relationship. – Temperance

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Six of Pentacles – Four of Cups – Strength

Don’t show her attention – she will get the best of you.

Don’t let – Four of Cups

show her attention – Six of Pentacles –

a woman gets the best of you (wraps you around her little finger). – Strength

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Four of Wands – Ace of Swords – Nine of Cups

They want to make you pair up, be a couple, marry even.

They want to – Nine of Cups

make you – Ace of Swords

pair up, be an item, be a couple, even marry. – Four of Wands

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Star – Fool – Eight of Swords

Being crazy about a woman can’t happen if you aren’t there.

Saying ‘I love you’ to a woman- Star

can’t happen – Eight of Swords

if you ignore it all and are not present. – Fool

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It’s not personal, he isn’t interested in a real relationship. Note you have both of the positive marriage cards (Four of Wands, which shows a wedding; Ten of Cups, married with children and happily ever after).

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It’s clear that he is attracted to you, is favorably impressed by you. The last reading makes that clear: If you don’t talk to her, you won’t be telling her you love her.

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her second question:

Email Reading
The category of life is:: Love

Question: In the upcoming 6 months, what kind of attitudes will Love Interest develop toward me and our relationship?

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Lovers – Four of Pentacles – Four of Cups

He quits withholding love.

He quits – Four of Cups

withholding – Four of Pentacles

love. – Lovers

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Seven of Swords – Two of Pentacles – Ace of Wands

Developing daring sexually (sexual rhythm?)

Developing – Two of Pentacles

daring – Seven of Swords

sexually. – Ace of Wands

Sexual – Ace of Wands

rhythm. – Two of Pentacles

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Hierophant – Ace of Swords – Queen of Wands

Commits to you as his wife/woman absolutely.

Hierophant – commits to you

as his wife/woman – Queen of Wands

absolutely, all the way. – Ace of Swords

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Three of Cups – Strength – Five of Swords

He rebels (gets snarky) because your influence is the reason he is sharing your beautiful life with you.

He rebels, gets snarky, shows his ass because – Five of Swords

your influence on him is the reason he isn’t being snarky – Strength

and is sharing your gracious world with you. – Three of Cups

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Four of Wands – Two of Cups – Hierophant

Without doing anything, you influence him toward marriage.

You are quiet, even unresponsive, – High Priestess

which influences him (kind of involuntarily) – Two of Cups

toward union with you in marriage. – Four of Wands

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Nine of Pentacles – Sun – Page of Pentacles

He feels you could leave him and still have an enjoyable, fulfilled life: You are good at minding your own business coolly.

You are so good at having a life of your own – Nine of Pentacles

he feels – Page of Pentacles

you could leave him and have an enjoyable life. – Sun

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Here we have the common theme of a bull impelled to commit to a relationship precisely because his cow is keeping her options open. This is classic guythink.  Notice his resentment side-effect when he is really getting along with you:  Strength and Five of Wands … you take the fight out of him.

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Note the cards that describe you in this relationship from his perspective are all cards of women who are private, have a life/house of their own, and have things under control. You are not fussing over him like Queen of Pentacles would, not being ‘understanding’ like Queen of Cups would, for instance. Google Queen of Wands, Three of Cups, Strength, High Priestess and Nine of Pentacles for a study of this.

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Tarot Readings for You for September 6, 2017 Wednesday©

Sep 5, 2017 by

This email reading is ‘His View of Me,’ my standard Question Number 1. Client reports it’s accurate.

An email like this with a question of your own can be had at the Email Readings navigation tab at the top of this page.

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Email Reading

The category of life is:: Love

My question is:: What is his perspective and attitude toward me and/or toward our relationship?

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Judgment – Two of Swords – Six of Wands

Not twisting my arm to renew [the relationship].

Not – Two of Swords

twisting my arm – Six of Wands

to renew [the relationship]. – Judgment*

[‘the relationship’ wording comes from the question]

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Justice – Ace of Swords – King of Cups

A mandate to do the right thing, and such a weakling am I.

A mandate – Ace of Swords

to do the right thing – Justice

and such a weakling I am. – King of Cups

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Chariot – Seven of Swords – Four of Pentacles

Just not daring enough to take charge and take action.

Just not enough – Four of Pentacles

daring = Seven of Swords

to take charge and take action (like a leader). – Chariot

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Queen of Cups – Star – Fool

She knows me – not there to say “I love you.”

She knows me [her man] – Queen of Cups

not there to – Fool

say “I love you.” – Star

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Page of Pentacles – Nine of Wands – Five of Cups

He sees himself as a failure and feels so defensive.

He sees himself as – Page of Pentacles

a failure (and is sorry about it) – Five of Cups

and feels so defensive, so accused. – Nine of Wands

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Lovers – Four of Swords – Knight of Wands

Not pursuing her as my love partner … just not.

Not – Four of Swords

pursuing her – Knight of Wands

as my love partner – Lovers

… just not doing it. – Four of Swords

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Querant says to Emily:

Thank you Emily! This reading seems spot on. I’m amazed at how you arrive at some of the interpretations for the cards. Some cards are more challenging to me.. I’ve recently started learning to read myself and would love to learn your method. I’ll have to check out your site more.

Thanks again! You have a gift indeed.

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Emily replies to Querant:

Here is the place to learn Tarot. Not just on the blog itself, either.   If you put your email into the popup about the newsletter, you will get an invitation to buy an every-Friday lesson by email that costs $30 a month and includes a magnificent Tarot reference book I wrote which is worth the thirty bucks itself.  And also – in case you have not noticed this:

Google any two cards by name.  Add ‘Tarot Verbatim’ if you want to limit the search to just Tarot Verbatim™.  You can do that with the cards you see here.

You can learn the meanings of cards easily like this.  You can also Google a single card plus ‘Tarot Verbatim’  and get all the days it appears for seven years this site has been alive. 

 If you really want to get into a single card, click the ‘more’ in the Google search, and it goes on forever with other places the card appears.  (Some cards rarely appear, and that means Tarot violates the Laws of Random Distribution.)


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Tarot Readings for You for August 23, 2017 Wednesday©

Aug 22, 2017 by

Here’s a lady who is trying to figure out why love interest comes back. We have not done a reading here on Commitment Phobia, on the man-think behind it. She shares that experience with us.

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Are you wondering what happened to the lessons? The techs. It seems it’s not feasible to resume the lessons automatically, as I really wanted. So they are setting it up so you can buy individually the lessons you miss if you want to.

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Reminding you that this email lesson post is just like all the email lessons I do, and you can buy one whenever you like.

Emily

 

 

Email Reading 
The category of life is:: Love interest
My question is:: Juan and I are going out on a date. What has changed about his feelings for me over the last 3 months? Why has he decided to pursue me again? 

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Three of Swords – Five of Cups – Seven of Swords

Broke up with you in a sneaky way, and missed you.

Broke up with you – Three of Swords

in a sneaky snarky way – Seven of Swords

and I miss you so. – Five of Cups

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Two of Wands – Temperance – Two of Swords

The close relationship that he ended is really the future.

I put an end to – Two of Swords

an intimate relationship, with communication – Temperance

and it’s what’s going to be. – Two of Wands

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Ten of Cups – Wheel of Fortune – Eight of Pentacles

What he is doing is making a happy marriage happen.

Everything I am doing is making – Eight of Pentacles

that togetherness, that happily-ever-after relationship – Ten of Cups

happen. – Wheel of Fortune

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Nine of Cups – Strength – Ace of Swords

I fight it, but she gets me to be the way she wants me to be.

I am against it – I fight it – Ace of Swords

but she gets me to be – Strength

the way she wants me to be. – Nine of Cups

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Four of Wands – Tower – Page of Swords

I broke up because of the threat of marriage.

I broke up – Tower

because of the threat – Page of Swords

of marriage. – Four of Wands

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King of Wands – Eight of Cups – Hermit

Looking for a way to get out of being her husband.

Looking for a way – Hermit

to get out of – Eight of Cups

being her husband. – King of Wands

Men don’t think like women. These spreads are the perfect description of Commitment Phobia. A guy loves a gal but hates ‘being tied down.’

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We tend to think, when we have found Mr. or Mrs. Right, that we are in the right relationship. ‘Taint so, necessarily. Mr. Right’s idea of relationship does not include commitment, marriage, or letting you affect his ways of doing things. Note both positive marriage cards (Ten of Cups and Four of Wands) and all the cards about regret and resistance and ending it.

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When a person finds himself or herself in a relationship with someone he or she loves, but the relationship is not his or her cup of tea, a back-and-forth pattern occurs.

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We describe him trying to get out of the spider web of Love, only to come back to its sticky embrace. So this may be a pattern developing.

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This pattern is really extreme when you have the smell-good thing goin’. If he smells really really good to you, it’s a Mother Nature bond based on the fact your and his genes are opposite. Mother Nature knows your offspring will not have defects (because it takes the same copy of the gene on each side for the gene to be expressed), so Mother Nature is complicit in your relationship.

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These relationships are soulmate pairings, and they are not easy.

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Illustrations from the Rider-Waite Tarot Deck®, known also as the Rider Tarot and the Waite Tarot, reproduced by permission of U. S. Games Systems, Inc., Stamford, CT 06902 USA. Copyright ©1971 by U. S. Games Systems, Inc. Further reproduction prohibited. The Rider-Waite Tarot Deck® is a registered trademark of U. S. Games Systems, Inc.

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Tarot Readings for You for July 24-25, 2017 Monday-Tuesday©

Jul 24, 2017 by

She wonders whether love is out there for her with a certain fella. She shares this reading with you.

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A reading just like this one can be yours. See the Email Navigation tab for particulars.

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You can expand on the card meanings used her by Googling the cards. This site’s archives will come if you just put the card names into Google.

Email Reading

The category of life is:: Love

My question is:: Hi! I’d like to know, will there be a relationship for me? He’s involved with a middle aged Libra woman. Thank you!

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Knight of Cups – Eight of Pentacles – Lovers

Here’s a love relationship with this serial boyfriend.

Here’s a love relationship – Lovers

with this serial – Eight of Pentacles

boyfriend. – Knight of Cups

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Ten of Pentacles – Three of Swords – Three of Cups

He breaks up a dysfunctional relationship and dates you.

He breaks up – Three of Swords

a dysfunctional relationship – Ten of Pentacles

and dates you. – Three of Cups

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King of Swords – Two of Cups – Seven of Swords

He is a masculine man who gets away with cheating and fooling around.

He is a masculine man – King of Swords

who gets away with – Seven of Swords

cheating and fooling around. – Two of Cups

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King of Cups – Seven of Wands – Three of Pentacles

An affectionate emotional man but the last thing he wants is a relationship in which he does his part as agreed.

An affectionate emotional man – King of Cups

but the last thing he wants is – Seven of Wands

a relationship in which he does his part as agreed. – Three of Pentacles

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Judgment – Empress – Queen of Wands

You are the new Goddess, the wife-type.

You are the new – Judgment

Goddess, – Empress

the wifely type. – Queen of Wands

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Two of Swords – Page of Cups – Nine of Wands

There’s no doubt you will be very apprehensive (nervous and fearful).

There is no – Two of Swords

doubt – Page of Cups

this is a tense situation. – Nine of Wands

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Five of Pentacles – Sun – High Priestess

You are miserable when the playboy leaves you for another woman.

You are miserable and missing him – Five of Pentacles

when the playboy leaves you – Sun

for another woman. – High Priestess

The answer is yes, but it’s not Mr. Right.

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They will cost $30 per month.

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P. S. My deceased husband was a Finn.

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Tarot Readings for You for July 22-23, 2017 Weekend©

Jul 20, 2017 by

Once in a while, you ask Tarot whether what just happened is what it was telling you about in a past reading. That is a yes-or-no question. That is what happens in today’s real-life email reading example. Tarot answers that, yes, it was her next love-interest Tarot was referring to. There’s a video on this site called ‘Destiny and Your Soul Mate,’ which reminds me of that ‘your next love interest’ remark of Tarot’s.

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You can Google one card or a pair of cards you find in these spreads, and research their meanings more. You can also have a reading like this for yourself – just click on the Email Reading navigation tab up there.

Question: The question would be what is in the future for myself and the person that I just met. Is he the one the cards were referring to from the reading you did in March for me.

Is this the person the cards spoke of in your March reading?

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Temperance – Two of Pentacles – Star

Tarot says it told you about an intimate relationship that makes you feel very good, and it is this next one, yes. (Thrilling love.)

Told you all about a very feel-good, thrilling – Star

intimate relationship – Temperance

– the next one. – Two of Pentacles

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[See the video on our site, the one titled Destiny and Your Soul Mate, a history of a woman’s search for her true love. For three years or so the cards predicted what was happening in his life, but said over and over that there were more than one of these true love partners. When Tarot said the man she met was Mr. Right, she questioned him about what was happening in his life at the times the cards spoke of seminal events – divorce, death of mother, end of one job, moving to a different town – and indeed these things happened at those times.]

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What is in the future for myself and the person that I just met?

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Nine of Cups – Five of Swords – Eight of Cups

Your best good here, as he drops a pushy attitude (or intent to take advantage).

Your best good is involved here – Nine of Cups

as he drops out of, or quits – Eight of Cups

a pushy attitude or intent to take advantage. – Five of Swords

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Seven of Swords – Knight of Wands – Six of Cups

He gets away from violating your trust and toward trusting and loving you romantically and sweetly.

He rapidly gets away from – Knight of Wands

violating your trust, sabotaging, – Seven of Swords

and fast toward – Knight of Wands

trusting you, loving you sweetly and romantically. – Six of Cups

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Five of Pentacles – Seven of Cups – Hierophant

Things falling apart – Seven of Cups

in a miserable way – Five of Pentacles

is normal and harmless. – Hierophant

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King of Wands – Page of Cups – Justice

He wonders whether he is your legal husband.

He wonders whether – Page of Cups

he is your husband – King of Wands

legally. – Justice

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Seven of Pentacles – Knight of Cups – High Priestess

He puzzles out that you are the lady he loves, and is an affectionate good-natured boyfriend.

He puzzles it out that, indeed – Seven of Pentacles

you are the lady – High Priestess

he loves, and is an affectionate sweetheart of a boyfriend. – Knight of Cups

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