Tarot Readings for You for September 14-15, 2017 Thursday-Friday©

Sep 13, 2017 by

(Both my computers have been inoperable for a week due to its maintenance techs choosing to have something called iDrive, a cloud backup thing, installed. It totally wrecked both of them. Remember iDrive: It runs Mercedes Benz self-driving cars! And THAT is why you are getting another email today. No time to finish the 3-card analytical post I started on each of the two computers.)

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Now, here’s a common situation. Women tend to take it personally when, after a wonderful first date, Dude is unresponsive. Quite often though, when I access Dude’s experience, it’s all about what’s going on in his life and where he’s at … like not wanting to re-live the last breakup/divorce. So the moral is: Don’t take it personally. (Just tell yourself he has bad taste in good women after all.)

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Today we have two questions from the same Querant. Is it about the same fellow? – I don’t know.

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For those of you who have been waiting for the much-delayed lessons, well, they are now live. There’s a big blue button you can check them out with.

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Email Reading

The category of life is:: Love

My question is:: I had a first date with a guy after an intense 1 month chatting online. Now he is cold towards me. Why is he not contacting me, will it help if I call him and ask him out or it will make me look weak?

Question: Why isn’t he calling me, and what effect would it have if I call him?

Ten of Wands – Four of Swords – Ten of Cups*

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When it comes to being happy as a couple, wait and don’t do anything.

When it comes to the happily-ever-after, – Ten of Cups

just don’t participate or respond – Four of Swords

and wait it out as long as it takes. – Ten of Wands

* (Our Daily Spread November 20, 2012 Tuesday© | TarotVerbatim.com

has 3 out of these four cards, for those of you who are looking them up.)

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King of Wands – Three of Swords – Page of Cups

Do I want to be a divorced man here?

Do I really want to be – Page of Cups

a divorced – Three of Swords

husband? – King of Wands

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Temperance – Knight of Wands – Ten of Swords

Running from being a failure in a close relationship.

Running away from – Knight of Wands

being a failure – Ten of Swords

in an intimate one-on-one relationship. – Temperance

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Six of Pentacles – Four of Cups – Strength

Don’t show her attention – she will get the best of you.

Don’t let – Four of Cups

show her attention – Six of Pentacles –

a woman gets the best of you (wraps you around her little finger). – Strength

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Four of Wands – Ace of Swords – Nine of Cups

They want to make you pair up, be a couple, marry even.

They want to – Nine of Cups

make you – Ace of Swords

pair up, be an item, be a couple, even marry. – Four of Wands

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Star – Fool – Eight of Swords

Being crazy about a woman can’t happen if you aren’t there.

Saying ‘I love you’ to a woman- Star

can’t happen – Eight of Swords

if you ignore it all and are not present. – Fool

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It’s not personal, he isn’t interested in a real relationship. Note you have both of the positive marriage cards (Four of Wands, which shows a wedding; Ten of Cups, married with children and happily ever after).

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It’s clear that he is attracted to you, is favorably impressed by you. The last reading makes that clear: If you don’t talk to her, you won’t be telling her you love her.

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her second question:

Email Reading
The category of life is:: Love

Question: In the upcoming 6 months, what kind of attitudes will Love Interest develop toward me and our relationship?

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Lovers – Four of Pentacles – Four of Cups

He quits withholding love.

He quits – Four of Cups

withholding – Four of Pentacles

love. – Lovers

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Seven of Swords – Two of Pentacles – Ace of Wands

Developing daring sexually (sexual rhythm?)

Developing – Two of Pentacles

daring – Seven of Swords

sexually. – Ace of Wands

Sexual – Ace of Wands

rhythm. – Two of Pentacles

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Hierophant – Ace of Swords – Queen of Wands

Commits to you as his wife/woman absolutely.

Hierophant – commits to you

as his wife/woman – Queen of Wands

absolutely, all the way. – Ace of Swords

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Three of Cups – Strength – Five of Swords

He rebels (gets snarky) because your influence is the reason he is sharing your beautiful life with you.

He rebels, gets snarky, shows his ass because – Five of Swords

your influence on him is the reason he isn’t being snarky – Strength

and is sharing your gracious world with you. – Three of Cups

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Four of Wands – Two of Cups – Hierophant

Without doing anything, you influence him toward marriage.

You are quiet, even unresponsive, – High Priestess

which influences him (kind of involuntarily) – Two of Cups

toward union with you in marriage. – Four of Wands

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Nine of Pentacles – Sun – Page of Pentacles

He feels you could leave him and still have an enjoyable, fulfilled life: You are good at minding your own business coolly.

You are so good at having a life of your own – Nine of Pentacles

he feels – Page of Pentacles

you could leave him and have an enjoyable life. – Sun

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Here we have the common theme of a bull impelled to commit to a relationship precisely because his cow is keeping her options open. This is classic guythink.  Notice his resentment side-effect when he is really getting along with you:  Strength and Five of Wands … you take the fight out of him.

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Note the cards that describe you in this relationship from his perspective are all cards of women who are private, have a life/house of their own, and have things under control. You are not fussing over him like Queen of Pentacles would, not being ‘understanding’ like Queen of Cups would, for instance. Google Queen of Wands, Three of Cups, Strength, High Priestess and Nine of Pentacles for a study of this.

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Tarot Readings for You for August 23, 2017 Wednesday©

Aug 22, 2017 by

Here’s a lady who is trying to figure out why love interest comes back. We have not done a reading here on Commitment Phobia, on the man-think behind it. She shares that experience with us.

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Are you wondering what happened to the lessons? The techs. It seems it’s not feasible to resume the lessons automatically, as I really wanted. So they are setting it up so you can buy individually the lessons you miss if you want to.

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Reminding you that this email lesson post is just like all the email lessons I do, and you can buy one whenever you like.

Emily

 

 

Email Reading 
The category of life is:: Love interest
My question is:: Juan and I are going out on a date. What has changed about his feelings for me over the last 3 months? Why has he decided to pursue me again? 

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Three of Swords – Five of Cups – Seven of Swords

Broke up with you in a sneaky way, and missed you.

Broke up with you – Three of Swords

in a sneaky snarky way – Seven of Swords

and I miss you so. – Five of Cups

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Two of Wands – Temperance – Two of Swords

The close relationship that he ended is really the future.

I put an end to – Two of Swords

an intimate relationship, with communication – Temperance

and it’s what’s going to be. – Two of Wands

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Ten of Cups – Wheel of Fortune – Eight of Pentacles

What he is doing is making a happy marriage happen.

Everything I am doing is making – Eight of Pentacles

that togetherness, that happily-ever-after relationship – Ten of Cups

happen. – Wheel of Fortune

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Nine of Cups – Strength – Ace of Swords

I fight it, but she gets me to be the way she wants me to be.

I am against it – I fight it – Ace of Swords

but she gets me to be – Strength

the way she wants me to be. – Nine of Cups

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Four of Wands – Tower – Page of Swords

I broke up because of the threat of marriage.

I broke up – Tower

because of the threat – Page of Swords

of marriage. – Four of Wands

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King of Wands – Eight of Cups – Hermit

Looking for a way to get out of being her husband.

Looking for a way – Hermit

to get out of – Eight of Cups

being her husband. – King of Wands

Men don’t think like women. These spreads are the perfect description of Commitment Phobia. A guy loves a gal but hates ‘being tied down.’

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We tend to think, when we have found Mr. or Mrs. Right, that we are in the right relationship. ‘Taint so, necessarily. Mr. Right’s idea of relationship does not include commitment, marriage, or letting you affect his ways of doing things. Note both positive marriage cards (Ten of Cups and Four of Wands) and all the cards about regret and resistance and ending it.

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When a person finds himself or herself in a relationship with someone he or she loves, but the relationship is not his or her cup of tea, a back-and-forth pattern occurs.

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We describe him trying to get out of the spider web of Love, only to come back to its sticky embrace. So this may be a pattern developing.

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This pattern is really extreme when you have the smell-good thing goin’. If he smells really really good to you, it’s a Mother Nature bond based on the fact your and his genes are opposite. Mother Nature knows your offspring will not have defects (because it takes the same copy of the gene on each side for the gene to be expressed), so Mother Nature is complicit in your relationship.

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These relationships are soulmate pairings, and they are not easy.

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Tarot Readings for You for August 16, 2017 Wednesday©

Aug 15, 2017 by

 

Wednesdays will be the day for Email readings, since Wednesday covers only one day (that’s in theory of course). This email reading is split between two relationships Client is interested in. She wants clarification re their perspective on her. We discover two opposite views the two men have: One is confident and the other very much not so.

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You can have a reading just like this – just check out the Email Readings tab, above. You can also get the combined meanings of any two Tarot cards by typing them into Google, or any one card – but put ‘Tarot Verbatim’ after the single-card search if you want to limit it to just the archives of our site here.

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UPDATE ON THE LESSONS: Techs have waved the white flag. They need until September to start the lessons, and that’s September 1, the first Friday. I have all my fingers crossed.

Email Reading

The category of life is:: Love

My question is:: I have 2 men in my life right now and I’m confused about who I should choose. I suppose it would help me decide between the two if I knew how they feel about me.

I agree. But this question is off-kilter. I’m sure you don’t want to know how they jointly feel about you. And you haven’t pegged them. So I shall ask Man #1’s view of you, then Man #2’s view of you, and let you take it from there. I used two different decks for this so cards would not be missing from the second question.

Man #1’s view of you, how he feels about you

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Four of Wands – Lovers – Knight of Wands

He is on his way to being your love partner in a committed union/marriage.

He is on his way (pursuing) – Knight of Wands

to being your love partner – Lovers

in a committed union or a marriage. – Four of Wands

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Justice – Six of Pentacles – Temperance

You and he are in an intimate mutual union, are committed, and are treating one another the right way.

You and me are in an intimate mutual union, we talk, – Temperance

are committed, – Justice

and are treating one another like that – treating one another right.” – Six of Pentacles

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Knight of Pentacles – Two of Wands – Sun

He knows one thing for sure: A happy future, being free, and that’s a plan.

He knows one thing for sure: – Knight of Pentacles

A happy – Sun

future – Two of Wands

being free – Sun

and that’s a plan. – Two of Wands

*If this fellow is married, ‘taken’ in some way, or lives in another town, Sentence 1 (Four of Wands = home; Knight of Wands = leaving) and Sentence 3 (Two of Wands = for sure; Sun = getting away from the restrictions, being relieved and happy, it’s fun) picture him leaving and having a future with you.

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Man #2’s view of you, how he feels about you

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Nine of Wands – Three of Swords – Judgment

He is afraid of another split-up or divorce.

He is afraid – Nine of Wands

of another – Judgment

split-up or divorce. – Three of Swords

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Queen of Cups – Seven of Pentacles – Chariot

Does she think I am in control and responsible here?”

He is in doubt: Does – Seven of Pentacles

she think – Queen of Cups

I am in control and responsible, a manly leader, here? – Chariot

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Seven of Wands – Nine of Cups – King of Swords

How he struggles to be the man he wants to be – the decisive manly leader.

More than anything, he wants to be – Nine of Cups

a decisive manly man – King of Swords

and that’s a challenge; the odds are against it.

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Client’s Comment:

Thank you so much and absolutely use it on the website!

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Tarot Readings for You for July 29-30, 2017 Weekend©

Jul 28, 2017 by

 

NEWS: TODAY I SENT THE 221 PAGES of the first 14 lessons, two months’ worth, to the techs for them to set them up to deliver to whoever subscribes, and also sent the 56-page Why You Want Tarot Verbatim™ reference book to be formatted to deliver as a gift to subscribers. It’s a gem, and I will be selling it for at least $30 another time. So now is the time to subscribe.

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Some people go to church every Sunday for years and never join, and some fellas go to a gal just as frequently as that and never join. In just such an old-old story, a lady wants to know what … sooner or later … multitudes of ladies want to know. She has agreed to let her story be aired here on Tarot Verbatim™

More meanings of these cards can be had by typing the names of a pair of them into Google, or a single name with ‘Tarot Verbatim’ after it if you want only items from the archives of our site. And of course, the Email Readings tab up there is an open door for you to get an analysis of whatever you are interested or involved in.

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Email Reading

The category of life is:: Love

My question is:: I have been intimate with my guy for a year. What does my lover feel towards me and what is his attitude towards our relationship?

Nine of Pentacles – Two of Wands – Lovers

Will always be this independent woman’s love partner.

Will always be – Two of Wands

this independent woman’s – Nine of Pentacles

partner in a loving relationship. – Lovers

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Ten of Pentacles – Six of Wands – World

She won’t put up with games that complicate (and mess up) our relationship.

She won’t put up with – World

games – Six of Wands

that complicate (and mess up) our relationship. – Ten of Pentacles

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Eight of Swords – Page of Wands – Judgment

I become my best self here, and I don’t wanna talk about it.

I become (new phase, new life) – Judgment

my best self – Page of Wands

and I sure can’t – Eight of Swords

talk about this (admit what’s who I am now). – Page of Wands

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Five of Swords – Seven of Wands – Sun

I am happy now that I won’t let myself be demanding (and/or pushy?).

I am a happy camper now (out of the woods) – Sun

that I won’t let myself ‘get on my soapbox,’ my ‘high horse,’ and demand my way – Seven of Wands

to take advantage, to be abusive, be the smart alec or the bully. – Five of Swords

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Three of Swords – Five of Wands – Moon

I’m the one who suffers, starting a fight to split up.

Oh the misery I am in when – Moon

I get in a fight (with her) – Five of Wands

to split us up. – Three of Swords

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Nine of Swords – Three of Pentacles – Eight of Cups

No longer am I upset about doing my part in this relationship.

No longer am I – Eight of Cups

worried and upset about – Nine of Swords

doing my part in our relationship. – Three of Pentacles

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Many fellows want to keep their teenage years freedoms, and this makes them fear a relationship, even one they chose and maintained. There comes a point where they either wear themselves out fighting it, and give in and have a good relationship, or they chicken out and run away. Your guy has ‘crossed his Rubicon’: He is deciding to stay.

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Looks like his view of you being able to be independent and take care of yourself is a big plus to him. When fellows feel that way, some of them complain about or resent that fact. Go figure.

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The last two spreads are a great example of why not to fear ‘bad cards.’

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Client’s comments:

Hello Emily,

    Thank you for the reading, it soothed me a bit even if I don’t truly believe he will be mine forever.  The cards were on point for several keys, even though I gave you nothing to really go on.  You have permission to share, leaving out my name.

The cards identified me as an independent woman that can care for myself, and you intuitively said that he actually likes that about me, he does.  Also, “I become my best self here, but don’t want to admit it”.  He is likely at his best performance with me (what keeps him coming back). He would never admit he needs me or has feelings because we are in a modern “situationship” and says he wants casual only.  But it feels more than that!

     “Happy now, won’t demand my way”.  He has been coming to visit twice as much as usual, and has not put any new restrictions lately (he unfriended me on everything during last break up, now he seems to have relaxed a bit, still not on media though).  The part about him being miserable when he starts a fight to break up, now I know he was miserable without me, and he comes back even if I do something he hates.

He plays games, but I call him out on it.  I have tolerated alot, but on the things that I won’t, I have not been easy on him (but still take him back, ugh, he is so dreamy!).  

     I still don’t know if he secretly loves me…kinda think it shows, but he hides it.  He will not be with me forever, but maybe at this moment he feels like he could mess with me forever, ha-ha.  I need to do another reading to ask why he won’t be in a “real” relationship with me.  So this will be two parts.

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Tarot Readings for You for July 24-25, 2017 Monday-Tuesday©

Jul 24, 2017 by

She wonders whether love is out there for her with a certain fella. She shares this reading with you.

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A reading just like this one can be yours. See the Email Navigation tab for particulars.

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You can expand on the card meanings used her by Googling the cards. This site’s archives will come if you just put the card names into Google.

Email Reading

The category of life is:: Love

My question is:: Hi! I’d like to know, will there be a relationship for me? He’s involved with a middle aged Libra woman. Thank you!

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Knight of Cups – Eight of Pentacles – Lovers

Here’s a love relationship with this serial boyfriend.

Here’s a love relationship – Lovers

with this serial – Eight of Pentacles

boyfriend. – Knight of Cups

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Ten of Pentacles – Three of Swords – Three of Cups

He breaks up a dysfunctional relationship and dates you.

He breaks up – Three of Swords

a dysfunctional relationship – Ten of Pentacles

and dates you. – Three of Cups

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King of Swords – Two of Cups – Seven of Swords

He is a masculine man who gets away with cheating and fooling around.

He is a masculine man – King of Swords

who gets away with – Seven of Swords

cheating and fooling around. – Two of Cups

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King of Cups – Seven of Wands – Three of Pentacles

An affectionate emotional man but the last thing he wants is a relationship in which he does his part as agreed.

An affectionate emotional man – King of Cups

but the last thing he wants is – Seven of Wands

a relationship in which he does his part as agreed. – Three of Pentacles

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Judgment – Empress – Queen of Wands

You are the new Goddess, the wife-type.

You are the new – Judgment

Goddess, – Empress

the wifely type. – Queen of Wands

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Two of Swords – Page of Cups – Nine of Wands

There’s no doubt you will be very apprehensive (nervous and fearful).

There is no – Two of Swords

doubt – Page of Cups

this is a tense situation. – Nine of Wands

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Five of Pentacles – Sun – High Priestess

You are miserable when the playboy leaves you for another woman.

You are miserable and missing him – Five of Pentacles

when the playboy leaves you – Sun

for another woman. – High Priestess

The answer is yes, but it’s not Mr. Right.

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The Tarot Email Lessons I am writing take a lot of time, and so does the three-card analysis the Tarot Verbatim™ site usually has. I am ‘buying time’ by posting the email readings of the clients who allow me to do so. So, with your permission, I can use this one.

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The subscription begins in August: An email every Friday of ten standard single-spaced pages or so, and a reference book I wrote that’s 55 pages or more to go with it as a gift. You are welcome to subscribe; you can decide month by month whether you want to keep receiving the lessons.

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They will cost $30 per month.

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P. S. My deceased husband was a Finn.

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