Guidance That squeamish feeling you get when *how you are supposed to act* is very much not how you really feel: That's our topic. *The good life we are under social pressure to say we have* is reminiscent of our ambivalence about glamor, and specifically about being around a glamorous sexpot. Social pretexts make us uneasy, defensive, and we dread confronting those scenes. It's like the embarrassment we feel when someone is talking too much, whether the talk is explaining, flirting, te...
