GUIDANCE      Sometimes we know too much for our own good. Sometimes we are so much wiser than they that it's best just to keep our mouths shut rather than rocking their comfy normalcy bias. Sometimes it's about maturity: Your news is not fit to print upon their tender years. Sometimes it's best to not answer impertinent questions about your personal business from conformists who pressure you to be like them. Today we meet a woman who keeps to herself and keeps her mouth shut, and we meet a man ...