GUIDANCE          Do I have to go through this?  Why am I, anyway?  Never mind how I got into it, or how someone else impinges on it: Why am I here?  That's the $64,000 question, isn't it?  And it's funny how the moment you up-periscope and ask 'When did I sign up for this?' the clouds start to dissipate, the oppression starts to lift, and you perk up.  Just the thought of being free, just the smell of freedom, begins the process of freeing myself. . Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! P...