GUIDANCE     What's a nice person like me doing in a place like THIS?, we ask, looking around. We let ourselves be identified with the family, the clan, the relatives, and other circles we find ourselves in as the fit becomes more and more uncomfortable. Maybe we have outgrown it. Today, we are about the times we aren't 'one of those people' anymore. Sometimes the Declaration of Independence turns into a War of Independence. (You're not allowed to talk about that in pubic, you know.) . Are YOU h...