Here is one of my very early clients. I learned something from her story, and pass it on to you. Older lady seeks Prince Charming, only Soul Mates Need Apply. Single and available, she was: Put capitals on that. Yes, she sought The One like a hunter seeks a trophy bull, the one with the big antlers. She wanted to know when, where, how she would find him, wanted to know what kind of life he was living, what he was doing now. She persisted, in the absence of the trophy bull, for almost three years...