Advice The arbitrary disruption of what is usual and proper by entities who have the power to do so: That is our relentless theme today, Veteran's Day. Veterans whose lives were disrupted sometimes frivolously and arbitrarily and who are not paid fairly (your father?). It's about stupid power plays that prevent what should be happening, but it's also about the boss being upset when the wage slave walks out. Hmmm. "You continue giving him respect when he discontinues being a grownup" is ...