GUIDANCE    We make a strong case for being proactively warm and fuzzy in order to get ahead – that being agreeable paves the road in business life, and being deliberate about your love life paves the way to a successful home life. “Put yourself in charge of healing the organization,” we say, and then “I take responsibility for other people loving me,” and “I take charge of my love life.” This is an argument for choosing to be decisive and sticking to it. This is an argument for using ambition a...