Guidance    We share a concept of what is normal, acceptable, average and well-behaved. It's labeled 'the right thing' in the back of our minds. Although officially unofficial, this standard is enforced with various consequences that we agree to pay when we violate the standard, and we enforce that standard when other people cross its line. The standard is modified by both culture and situation just as some laws are enforced more than others. Being appreciated and even rewarded for achievements ...