GUIDANCE      So fast it makes your head spin, we say. Just that fast, you are onto different direction, or you relocate to a different place, or you don't spend time with a buddy anymore, or your schedule is upside-down due to a new interest or job offer. Sometimes these disruptions are chosen, and sometimes foisted upon us, but you can be sure coincidence will drop in on you as it has dropped in to the rest of us, and take you for a spin. . Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! People lov...