Guidance     is on the light side today. It's about pretty girls and competition. It's about hard work and being comfortable. It points out that being a beautiful dame is work - that women compete in unofficial beauty contests all the time. Having people say you are the good-looking one is worth an effort to some of us. And some fellows go with one trophy woman after another in a beauty contest of their own.   Are YOU here for the first time?  Come in! People love this place! Our site is d...