Guidance     Contrast between what we are supposed to fear and worry about, and stepping out of that box into hardly being mindful of the distinction.   This isn't of course about fears that are rational.    It's more about bugaboos, and not lowering yourself into defiance mode.  Not doing any of the things guilt would drive me to do.   Turned off to all the things you put me under pressure to prove: I think I am okay, and therefore I am.   Supposed to be nervous about all these things … am tota...