GUIDANCE         It's all for your own good, don't-ya-know. Like eagles wait in the frozen winter air above the haystacks to feed upon the mice who are warmly minding their own mice business and not thinking to look up as they dart out, the buttinskys wait for us with their suggestions and their invitations. God bless them, they educate us about the glories of privacy and keep us alert whenever we leave our cozy hole in the haystack. . . Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! People love th...