Advice today is very simple: The worst does not happen. The disaster, whatever it is - eviction, illness, betrayal, despair - does not happen. The person in question pulls out of it beforehand, whether the pulling out is gradual or like the gunning of an engine. The feeling of narrow escape is here, though: no rejoicing is mentioned. This simple message is repeated and very clear, so someone is here who belongs to it.

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