Advice is about how beneficial the suffering we have overcome is. How being broke can teach us how to have money and how to keep it so we are financially stable. How it's the Dark Night of the Soul that makes a spiritual adept. How heartache instructs our enjoyment of peace and quiet when we finally arrive there. All's well that ends well, we forget the birth agony when we live our new baby life to the full. Get the independence you want by handling the ghetto within.

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