Guidance           One way to handle bossy people is to be an expert one yourself, you know? The kind of power struggles that involve one person's direct influence on another are very much like the kind of power struggles we have within ourselves. We contrast the wise-guy's cocky domination with the controlling woman's stifling of opposition, too. Then we are off into preventing financial loss, and into politics, the women's influence there, and the prosecution of a criminal.   . Are YOU here...