Guidance   There comes a time – always, to all of us – that things all go sideways at the same time. The scene is changed by that invisible hand, and there is no right thing to do, no smart move. We are stuck in a vacuum waiting for a breeze. Paralysis, at times like this, is not only normal but fairly smart. You can have all the despair you want, and that's okay, that's normal. You are in a cocoon, and a major involuntary turning point is ahead – almost always a new and better life. This is one...