GUIDANCE    Two capable skilled people marry one another in today's story, but the focus is really on the Take-care Woman, the motherly or matriarchal figure whose life is about other people and even the community. She backs her husband in his success, she contributes to community projects, and she provides a stable family life to its members. This is a capable, skilled woman who usually marries the same type of man and partners with him. Some savvy men deliberately marry such a woman in order t...