Well, this marriage theme has me puzzled. So I decide to do TWO four-card spreads, to see how similar they are - whether they are both on the theme. I was hoping the first would satisfy the marriage subject, and the second would be directed toward people who aren't in the throes of marital union. Look at these spreads card by card:  The first card in each (Ace of Swords/Five of Swords) means aggression or asserting oneself vigorously. The second in each (Ten of Cups/4 of Wands) is astounding:  T...