Guidance       Pep talk:  Be patient with yourself and with some others who are hurting.  Forgive the parts of your past that haunt you and focus instead on the use you make of that pain – and do the same with others who are processing some evil of their own.  There comes a time to embrace your privacy and tell some others to mind their own business.  Recovery is partial at some point, when you are still hung over but also taking charge.  There's no shame in being single again, or in enjoying y...