GUIDANCE             We show pictures of joy on the left, grief on the right, and in the middle, someone is having a private and leisurely existence. So you can be enthusiastic; you can be distraught; you can be above it all. 'All that hurt got me where I am now.' 'With all its headaches, I am happy to have a place of my own.' 'It was agonizing, but I got myself to where I want to be.' And after a good cry I am the one who has it all under control to my public. The messages say the agony and the...