Our Daily Spread for Feb. 17, 2011

She knows he is scared to marry her, but he will do it
Magician Queen of Cups, Nine of Swords, Ten of Cups
Romance and Marriage Perspective: He is going to marry a woman who believes in him and live happily ever after: He is upset over this. She knows he is scared to marry her, but he will do it. He is afraid she knows he is going to marry her. His wife's family is upset about what he is doing. She is up nights crying about what he does to the family. The family is afraid of what the wife is thinking of doing. He is afraid his wife and family have figured out what he is doing. Everyone is happy he did what he was afraid to do:  She had faith in him. She knows how making everyone in the family happy gets on his nerves. He puts himself through hell to make a good life for the wife. She is afraid of what he is doing with his family members. She has him figured out:  He is afraid of what his family will do. They are such a happy couple, she know it makes him nervous to pull that off.
Diverse stories here arise (as usual) from the 'spoiler' card, in this case the Nine of Swords.  Take it out, and you have a man who is going to marry the woman who loves and admires him, or is married to her.  That card is one of the fear/nightmare ones.  Sooo, you have to choose the scenario that fits your story:  most likely, the guy who is going to marry but is afraid to.  In-laws could be involved as 'family' here.  Warning:  Trying to think of all these could make you cross-eyed!
Meanings and Illustrations:
Queen of Cups: This is the nice girl, the good wife, the woman who understands him and believes in him and has faith in him.  The woman who has figured him out, or who 'knows all about him' as well.  She is the dreamy (romantic) type, you can tell, as she contemplates that antiquey vessel she so carefully balances on her right hand in the Rider Waite version of Tarot.  All the water means she is emotional.  And, of course, she is blond.  'Vanilla.'  Here, she is the good wife, sin...

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