GUIDANCE     Assessing (sussing out) a situation, thinking and not knowing: Something seems to be afoot; something isn't adding up. You feel awkward, thinking you are imposing on someone, and you have the best of intentions. You know someone is taking advantage but you don't know how … yet. You figure this person is the type to cheat for no reason except your gut. She studies him to see whether he is a user. He wonders how the dumb blond got the best of him. A strong sexual bond makes a gal cra...