Guidance          Dealing with other people on a day-to-day basis to get things done involves you dealing with their motivations, their values and character, their ideas of how and when and what is fair, because a stall pattern is likely if one (or more) person isn't functioning or isn't able to perform … or is a clown. Meetings that go on and on, wheels spinning, in business and family life is something we have to concern ourselves with.  We describe throwing ideas around, hashing things out, ...