Guidance       I am so relaxed in spite of my nerves when I am with my best friend. Here we talk about exchanges and how people deal with them – whether they react in the same tone in which they were addressed, or whether they choose not to react, or whether they step in and calm the waters. You can opt out of drama, we gently suggest, and give some examples of how that's done. You can push the clutch in on that racing engine and coast right through its energy. On a good day. . Are YOU here for ...