GUIDANCE    We report a sort of tug-of-war. We want to look good or to be good, so we stifle some aspects of ourselves. And we also stifle the factors that keep us from being the person we want to be, or to appear to be. So sometimes it's ourselves we limit, and sometimes it's something else. The idea is to look good and be a good guy. We speak of handicaps, and we speak of handicapping some things. That's it. . . Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! People love this place! Our site is d...