GUIDANCE     First we talk about how it's intelligent to fit in with the people you find yourself among, and to find yourself among people you do fit in with, in as happy a way as you can manage. We say that acting upbeat is to your benefit, and to the mutual benefit. We talk about face and acting your role in such a way others understand and accept you. We acknowledge some play-acting is necessary, and that there's an undercurrent as you go with the flow. We apply this concept to sharing money ...