GUIDANCE                        What she wants, and what he is or has, don’t jibe. Two assertive people who would otherwise jell, repel. He has too much of something for her, or she wants too much of something from him from his point of view … or both. Mama expects him to be more successful, and wife feels he is too sexy. Mama feels he is her proud son, and wife feels he is full of himself. We look for matches in all sorts of categories, don’t we, to get along? . . Are YOU here for the first tim...