Advice is about how a change of heart, mind, attitude, etc. is a new life, how a vision reframes one's past reality. Preoccupation with the regrettable past brings us to a change of circumstances for the better if we let the sadness progress in our minds until the vision snaps on like a light bulb. You regret doing the same thing over again until you change. Sometimes she goes back to being the silly blond again. ========================================================================= Is this...