GUIDANCE      We who are understanding types have to thank our abusers and would-be abusers for making life easier to figure out, don't we? Honest people just don't get what the horde of mouthy moochers are born knowing, do they? By our bruises we are educated about asserting ourselves not too much and not too little. Another side of our messages today is left over from yesterday – the part about not admitting, not talking about some things we know. We also speak of knowing how to live on a shoe...