Advice is persistently about How Not to be Taken, when we ask how to get ahead. Focus is on the ability to counter deceit, questions to ask yourself, who you should suspect, and even the viewpoint of the born mooch, the Entitled One. "Once she ponders and figures things out, she can handle the mooch both when (he) sucks up and when (he) is violent" says it all. Whatever is going on that you are not supposed to know about, you can handle it. =====================================================...