GUIDANCE    Love, trust, power, and things you feel you have to do: What a mix! - and we have questions about the mix. How much power can you, or they, be trusted with?, we ask. Why do I have to be good to these people anyway, and how come I have to have your grandchildren? Can I be assertive and be a good girl too? - or boy? And I guess he is ruled by his kid. Why do I feel that warm fuzzy moment is such a threat? And why are we dominated by our childhood, anyway? But somehow we can clash and s...