GUIDANCE     Those thoughts and feelings we brush off as we charge through our day: They don't go all-the-way away. Nope. They stack up in a closet in the back of our minds, and wait. They know there will come a time when we are by ourselves and thinking about things (ruminating). They pile on us then, and we really think about things. Disproportionately, those thoughts and feelings are uncomfortable or sad ones because, well, we brushed them aside originally. Yeah, there comes a day when you cl...