Advice today is all about realizing what we have been doing that is counterproductive - that awareness of the downside we all have had wash over us like a shadow. The eureka realization that it's not working, that this effort is truly in vain and we are going to lose the struggle if we persist. And realizing what we should do to counter the loss.

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