Guidance      We balance the dream with the effort it takes to get there and ask ourselves 'Is it worth the effort?' On the way, we ponder whether we are enjoying the fight too much. Then we go into other ways a fight is associated with being happy: Why is it you get satisfaction only when you raise a big fuss? And why are some people happy only when they are disrupting others? Then we ask ourselves why we are actually enjoying an aggravation, or even 'Is this life worth that effort? We balance...