Advice  I am the one who picks up the pieces and puts them back together:  Stand back and watch me wade into the mess.  There's the mentality that is overwhelmed when confronted by an out-of-control situation,  and there's a mentality that gets out the vacuum cleaner for the debris.  Such are the people muggers do not notice.  Confidence you can handle this is often the whole battle!

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