GUIDANCE    It ain't easy being easygoing. Being accommodating calls for occasional all-out self-defense. We all hate some love-everybody people. Everybody is in the way of you being the good guy, in practice. It helps if you love the battle and therefore can have a relaxed sense of humor about it. No, you can't be soft if you promote peace, love and healthiness; you had best dig the challenge, love the fight. Loving your enemies is where it's at if you aim to be the good guy, because just abou...