GUIDANCE       Some fights and some struggles are worth the effort, and some aren't. There's fighting for your freedom, and there's being free of a fight. Our underlying moral is 'Pick your battles.' Why be there for the pest's scene? Be absent when the shit hits the fan. On the other hand, don't expect the pest to be there when it's time to be confronted, either! Save your energy for meaningful struggles, and proceed in your right-of-way lightheartedly past the flak. . Are YOU here for the firs...