GUIDANCE        Oh those predatory type humans are almost everywhere you go. You are polite to them and you avoid them unless you go out of your way to invite them to a showdown when you’re in ‘No more Mr. Nice Guy’ mode. But usually you go out of your way to charm a jerk into mellowing out – for the moment at least. Sometimes that works too. Today we look at whether to avoid, to charm, or to take someone up on his snarly dare. . . Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! People love this plac...