GUIDANCE     When you worry about something all the time, you get used to it, it's a reflexive routine like buttoning a shirt, and you don't pay it any more attention. We talk about freeing ourselves from one aggravation at a time, and acting like we don't have a worry in the world. Forget worrying about work, and forget worrying if there's no work. If you don't take the aspirin, your headache will go away on its own. Today we suggest a 'to hell with it' feeling regarding whatever you drag aroun...