Guidance      You have been there and I have been there … perhaps one of us is there at the moment: not doing what you have to do, or not following orders. 'You Can't Make Me.' But sometimes what we have to do is have the willpower to quit cold turkey. Make it a point - at your own risk – that you are not going to change. When one thing ends, you have to switch to another. You don't run from aggressors, but you do run when you are about to be the aggressor. We are looking at the 'what you have ...