Temperance

Our Daily Spread for June 25, 2011

This weekend's question is simply: About the people around you that you are dealing with. Advice is that zany people have stable relationships if they are close. People who deal with one another as one seem to deal with the craziness around them just fine. There are so many kinds of partnering up that you have to wonder what marriage really is. Just as there are a million ways for a real estate deal to go kaflooey. If you have someone who validates you and it's mutual, the two of you can handle ...

Our Daily Spread for June 18, 2011

Today's question, quoting the lady who suggested it: like where are we going wrong with money, or what can we do to feel good in this economy, or money where art thou? Advice, when we asked about 'where's the money?' is about interacting and not interacting with others. The point is that if you are with person(s) you relate to and communicate freely with, your life or money will serve you; and if you are with people who are antagonistic or indifferent to you, your money isn't any more yours than...

Our Daily Spread for June 17, 2011

Advice today has a lot to do with mores - that violations and betrayals are around us: criminals who violate the law, people who betray partners and family, gang members who work with police, and police who get away with their crimes. It is also about police cleaning the neighborhood up, and us having the daring, the guts, to make a commitment to do right. Close connections to others make either type of community. OK, guys, Fridays are slow, y'all call, you will "get in." Comment here on your ...

Our Daily Spread June 14, 2011

Advice. A mother concerns herself with relating to her child and his support, and her ability to make a good living in business at associate level. Then we have the finance of romance, including whether being with this person holds you back. Whether this fellow is too young or just out for fun for you to be serious about him. Upshot of all this? Know where you are at with a partner, as to what the relationship is. ========================================================================= Is thi...

Our Daily Spread June 9, 2011

Advice is the pettiness of the personal animosities and personal issues that break up relationships with our spouses or intimate partners. Reading the list these four cards make, which I divided into 'male' and 'female' sides, I thought it was amusing. Mammals have a strong instinct to dominate, and when we fight, we are being mammals, often! The issue beneath is not who's right and who's injured, but who's boss. ========================================================================= Is this ...

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