Advice  The power struggle that ensues when rank-and-file people don't listen to Management's orders is the same process as the family members that no longer accept daddy as the dictator.  The politicians' rulings are met with resistance by mainstream folks just as the love interest who barks orders and is unresponsive to Partner's needs is rejected because  'I am not going to live that kind of life.'   (But it's easier to change boyfriends than governments.)

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