GUIDANCE         Serendipity (everybody being happy and getting along as a group) is likely in a place whose leader who is respected and popular. We look at how likely this is when that leader is 'a real man,' an honorable respected figure. Such a man at 'the top' reduces friction 'below.' We observe a man who can be happy and loving if he is the authority in his home. We kind of say that, in the same way gals are looking for a strong male, people in general accept a strong male as leader. So to...