GUIDANCE        We negotiate our way into occupying some position others recognize and categorize, our picture today suggests. Member of the family, person with a skill that sets him or her apart, single successful woman, man who likes everyone and everyone likes him, homebody or joiner. We relate to one another in our recognized capacity that people can conveniently stereotype. Did you ever notice the different strokes for different folks in people's interactions? - that if an upstanding citize...